I used to hang out with certain people, they were good friends. And I somehow believed that I contributed a little to unite them. They didn't know each other at first but because I liked to introduce my friends to my other friends, they could met and they were indeed become a group of people which was quite cohesive. I was part of that group, but somehow I felt that I need a change thus slowly I began to hang out with other people. But unfortunately these new people and those people were having a slight disdain to each other. Thus they couldn't unite. It could be said that I wasn't sided to any group, I was disinterested.
Then years(1-2 years) passed, somehow I felt forgotten by certain people. They didn't care as much as they used to do. This could be the result of the less communication between me and them. I thought they would stay the same no matter what happened which was a fatal mistake and a valuable lesson as they changed even if they said they didn't. The people who I trusted so much even though others kept defaming them turned out to be hanging out with those who had disdained them.
It was hard at first. People who I thought and I considered best friends prioritized other than me. But time healed. I learnt to be a little bit ignorant and counted my bliss. I learnt that I focused too much on what I had lost and let it shrouded my eyes to see my bliss. Furthermore, I learnt that lost communication could changed the relationship. Lastly, I counted this severe mistake as a precious lesson.
Until now, they are still my friends but well...... let the title explains!!!
Then years(1-2 years) passed, somehow I felt forgotten by certain people. They didn't care as much as they used to do. This could be the result of the less communication between me and them. I thought they would stay the same no matter what happened which was a fatal mistake and a valuable lesson as they changed even if they said they didn't. The people who I trusted so much even though others kept defaming them turned out to be hanging out with those who had disdained them.
It was hard at first. People who I thought and I considered best friends prioritized other than me. But time healed. I learnt to be a little bit ignorant and counted my bliss. I learnt that I focused too much on what I had lost and let it shrouded my eyes to see my bliss. Furthermore, I learnt that lost communication could changed the relationship. Lastly, I counted this severe mistake as a precious lesson.
Until now, they are still my friends but well...... let the title explains!!!
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